Mental Health & Emotional Wellbeing
At Seaton House School, we understand the importance of positive mental health and emotional wellbeing and ensuring that the school is a community where everyone feels able to thrive. Our school ethos and values underpin everything that we do.
What is Mental Health and Wellbeing?
The World Health Organisation defines mental health as a state of wellbeing in which every individual achieves their potential, copes with the normal stresses of life, works productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to their community. Mental health includes our emotional, psychological and social wellbeing.
We all have mental health and this affects how we feel, think and act.
Good mental health and wellbeing is just as important as good physical health. Like physical health, mental health can range across a spectrum from healthy to unwell; it can fluctuate on a daily basis and change over time.
What Helps?
Things that can help keep children and young people mentally well include:
- Connections: talking to others and having positive relationships
- Be active: being in good physical health, eating a balanced diet and getting regular exercise
- Take notice: spending time outdoors, appreciating nature. Doing things you enjoy and having interests
- Keep learning: setting yourself challenges and taking steps to achieve them. Learning new skills. Show an interest in new things and have opportunities to succeed
- Give: being kind to others
Other factors are also important, including: - Feeling loved, trusted, understood, valued and safe
- Being able to learn and having opportunities to succeed
- Accepting who they are and recognising what they are good at
- Having a sense of belonging in their family, school and community
- Feeling they have some control over their own life
- Resilience and having the strength to cope when something is wrong and the ability to solve problems
Seaton House Schools’ Wellbeing Vision
Supporting positive wellbeing and developing a Growth Mindset.
We have identified 5 core values for the girls to work towards. These are displayed around the school and promoted in assemblies and the school ethos.
Our Wellbeing Vision Statement
Our vision at Seaton House School is to provide a positive, nurturing environment which supports the wellbeing of all pupils. We recognise that mental health and wellbeing are a continuum and supporting wellbeing is the responsibility of all staff.
At Seaton House School, we aim to promote positive mental health and wellbeing for our whole school community (children, staff, parents and carers), and recognise how important mental health and emotional wellbeing is to our lives in just the same way as physical health. We recognise that children’s mental health is a crucial factor in their overall wellbeing and can affect their learning and achievement.
All children face challenges during their school career and some face significant life events. We have a role to ensure that children learn about what they can do to maintain positive mental health, supporting the development of resilience, understand what affects their mental health, how they can help reduce the stigma surrounding mental health issues, and where they can go if they need help and support.
How Does Our School Support Positive Mental Health and Wellbeing?
In school, we teach children about what it means to have good mental health and wellbeing throughout our curriculum and daily practice.
Our PSHE/RSE curriculum focuses specifically on developing children’s social and emotional skills that can prevent poor mental health from developing and help all children cope effectively with setbacks and remain healthy. It is about helping children to understand and manage their thoughts, feelings and behaviour and build skills that help them to thrive, such as working in a team, persistence, coping with setbacks, building positive relationships and self-awareness.
Supporting wellbeing and positive mental health is embedded within our ethos and practices. At Seaton House School, we have taken active steps towards supporting the mental health and wellbeing of all pupils and staff.
- Promoting our school values and encouraging a sense of belonging. Our ethos is to promote supporting the development of skills and character traits such as perseverance, compassion and teamwork.
- Achieving the Wellbeing Award for Schools and using this to continually monitor, review and develop our provision.
- Promoting pupil voice and opportunities to participate in decision-making through School Forum, Form Captains, Wellbeing Champions and Wellbeing Ambassadors.
- Celebrating academic and non-academic achievements in order to promote self-esteem, including half termly awards for positivity.
- Providing opportunities to develop a sense of worth through taking responsibility for themselves and others. For example Prefect roles, Form Captains, Wellbeing Captains and classroom roles of responsibility.
- Access to appropriate support such as Class Teachers and ELSA.
- Helping children to understand their emotions and to feel comfortable sharing any concerns or worries.
- Helping children to take on challenges, learn from mistakes and develop emotional resilience. For example, team building days, House Days and regular academic and physical challenges.
- Encouraging self-reflection and a focus on what we are grateful for.
- Weekly Feel Good Friday sessions to develop strategies to support positive mental health and wellbeing.
- Wellbeing Ambassador training for all Form VI pupils.
- Three trained ELSA staff, one per key stage, to offer support and advice.
- Wellbeing and ELSA contact boxes in Junior House and Senior House, for pupils to ask for support.
- Dedicated ELSA email for parents to share concerns and ask for help.
- Lunchtime drop-in sessions for pupils to talk to an adult about any worries they have or ask for help.
- Transition days to support pupils with the move on to the next Key Stage.
- Form V pupils are trained as Playground Buddies to offer support and activities at playtimes.
- Lunchtime clubs, such as mindfulness colour, yoga, lego club and book club, as well as sports clubs.
- All staff have received mental health and wellbeing training.
- We have positive behaviour systems in place to promote positive social behaviour.
- We have mental health and wellbeing assemblies to promote resilience and self-management. These are run each half term by our Form VI Wellbeing Champions.
- Workshops and events to promote mindfulness, growth mindset and positive mental health.
- Termly wellbeing activities and events.
- Wellbeing corner section on our weekly newsletter, providing information, support and sharing wellbeing news from around the school.
- We have a Mental Health and Wellbeing Policy for our school that is regularly updated and shared with all families.
- We have signed the governments Staff Wellbeing Charter. We include World Mental Health Day and Mental Health Awareness Week in the school calendar and plan activities for the whole school.
What If My Child is Experiencing Difficulties with Their Mental Health and Wellbeing?
In many instances, children and young people’s negative feelings and worries usually pass with the support of their parents and families. It is helpful for the school to know what they are going through at these times, so that staff can be aware of the need and support this.
Coping and adjusting to setbacks are critical life skills for children, just as they are for adults, but it is important that they develop positive, rather than negative, coping skills.
If you are ever worried about your child’s mental health and wellbeing then, just as you would about any concerns that you have about their learning, come and talk to us. Sometimes children will need additional support for a short period – this may be in the form of a daily check-in with a trusted adult, time to talk through what they are feeling and support in developing ways of moving forwards with this.
You can contact your child’s class teacher or email elsa@seatonhouse.sutton.sch.uk
Useful Ideas and Activities
Leaflets, information and ideas are available on the ELSA support boards in Early Years and Violet House, please help yourself to the information or ask in the office for more support.
Useful Links to More Information and Support
https://tutorful.co.uk/guides/the-expert-guide-to-help-your-child-with-anxiety
https://youngminds.org.uk/find-help/for-parents/parents-survival-guide/
What If My Child is Experiencing Difficulties with Their Mental Health and Wellbeing?
In many instances, children and young people’s negative feelings and worries usually pass with the support of their parents and families. It is helpful for the school to know what they are going through at these times, so that staff can be aware of the need and support this.
Coping and adjusting to setbacks are critical life skills for children, just as they are for adults, but it is important that they develop positive, rather than negative, coping skills.
If you are ever worried about your child’s mental health and wellbeing then, just as you would about any concerns that you have about their learning, come and talk to us. Sometimes children will need additional support for a short period – this may be in the form of a daily check-in with a trusted adult, time to talk through what they are feeling and support in developing ways of moving forwards with this.
You can contact your child’s class teacher or email elsa@seatonhouse.sutton.sch.uk
Useful Ideas and Activities
Leaflets, information and ideas are available on the ELSA support boards in Early Years and Violet House, please help yourself to the information or ask in the office for more support.
Useful Links to More Information and Support
https://tutorful.co.uk/guides/the-expert-guide-to-help-your-child-with-anxiety
https://youngminds.org.uk/find-help/for-parents/parents-survival-guide/
Our Pastoral Team
All staff within the school receive regular wellbeing and mental health training. We also have a pastoral team who work across the school providing support for pupils and advice for parents and staff.
Mrs Sarah McGreevy is the school Mental Health and Wellbeing Lead
ELSA (Emotional Literacy Support Assistant)
We have three trained ELSA staff working in Early Years, KS1 and KS2 – Mrs L Smith, Mrs Hill and Mrs Newton
ELSAs are warm, kind and caring people who want to make children and young people feel happy in school and to reach their potential socially, emotionally and academically. They understand the barriers to learning that some children and young people might have and can help them with this.
They can support the children and young person’s emotional development and help them cope with life’s challenges. ELSAs will also help children and young people to find solutions to problems they might have.
An ELSA is not there to fix problems but to help them find their own solutions and offer that important support to a child or young person.
Relationships are key in helping children and young people to feel safe and nurtured. ELSA is about creating a reflective space for the child or young person.
Wellbeing Ambassadors and Champions
All the girls in our Form VI class undertake the Worth-it Wellbeing Ambassadors training programme. They promote positivity and provide support across the school. This includes working with other year groups during Feel Good Friday.
Our two Wellbeing Prefects provide half termly assemblies linked to wellbeing and positive mental health. They also update our wellbeing display and provide information for the weekly newsletter.










